Did You Miss the Signs?

Here's a question for you. And I hope you answered no. Now I'm no love guru. I have a lot to learn about love. But I wanted to put in my 2 cents about the most powerful emotion known to man. Also, the majority of questions I get in readings are about love. 

Many people, including myself sometimes, want to know if their spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend, is the right one for them. Sometimes the questioner wants to know where their relationship is going. 

I want to share what Spirit has taught me. 

Sometimes certain relationships are created to teach us a valuable lesson. It doesn't matter if you are the most psychic person on earth or not. What the Creator has put in place to happen can't be avoided.  And yes, they can cause a lot of pain and we most of the time don't even know that there's a lesson there to learn. 

Other times, Spirit is constantly showing us through signs that a certain person is not the one for us. But for some reason we click the " I don't see shit" button and keep pressing forward no matter the crap that person throws at us. 

So what are some of the signs?

Well, when a client shares their story with me after a reading, I can most of the time pin point the "signs" that their guides were showing them but that person chose not to pay attention.

For example, if a guy or girl your dating says that they don't usual date a person like you, or they get mad if you don't have sex with them. Ting, ting, ting, Houston we have a problem.  Maybe they jokingly make an insensitive remark towards something they know that you care about. That's your queue to pay more attention. 

There are many more examples but I'll stop there for sake of time and boring the hell out of your brain. But before I conclude, one major sign that something is off would be your intuition telling you something is off. I know, I know, you've heard that before. But you'll be amazed at how many times people tell me that they've felt that something was off. Just because someone says something doesn't mean that they truly mean it. 

Actions speak louder than words.

Now this doesn't mean to engage doubtfully in every relationship. We all make mistakes and we are all learning to love ourselves and others better. 

It's a journey.

Remember that love can't be compartmentalized or strategically played. 

Like attracts like. I'm still not on board with this one in love, but if Spirit teaches it I have no authority to refuse it. 

Love doesn't hurt. The lack thereof does.

But if you are just  unsure at where your or your other half's heart is at, please don't hesitate to order a reading. 

"There's no other why. Love is the only why." - Collateral Beauty